Create a reality you want in 7 Steps

1.      Decide who you ARE

When you decide who you are, you automatically create yourself in the moment you are deciding to be that person across the board, no matter what. Whenever you change that decision, you change your reality. In the moment that you decide, you become that decision and hence you become that reality. What you choose and what you decide is what you are being and what you subsequently trust in. If you remain focused and conscious about it, your actions then reflect that decision.  Therefore, your actions produce an effect that is consistent with that decision in the way that you create your physical life. Your reality, which is you and comes from you and which is an expression of you, can give the impression of being external to allow for the idea of reflection, of knowing and of mentality.

When you begin to awaken your consciousness and recognise that you can create your reality consciously, you begin to factor in the idea of having a conscious decision. This generally takes the form of having the decision be according to desire and preference rather than the random idea that you are handed a reality or a decision. Even if you create the idea that it seems that you have been handed the decision of who you are, you only get the effect of being the person you are when you agree with that decision.

In creating consciously, you begin with using your desire, your preference and your discernment to narrow down who it is you want to be and who you wish to be. Therefore, make the decision of who you wish to be consciously, according to preference and according to the person that you ideally see yourself as. You contain it all and that means you can choose from anything and one of the options is to choose to be the person you desire and ideally picture that you are.

2.      Trust your decision

The idea that allows you to implement that decision to change your life is the idea of trusting the decision. By making the decision, in each and every moment, you are literally creating yourself. If you have a consistency to that decision; if you choose who you are and continue to decide that that is who you are, then you create a continuity and the foundation through which you can begin to see the changes in your reality. You can begin to see the changes through the eyes of the decision rather than through an older approach to your reality. When you decide who you are, you begin to see as that person and that person sees and interprets his/her reality and external circumstances differently.

Trust and faith is something that you always have. You always have trust and faith in something. If you think that you have no trust and you are doubting something, understand that doubt is not lack of trust. It is, however, a complete 100% trust in a reality that you do not prefer. Realising this allows you to remove the sense of burden from the idea of trust because you do not have to muster it up, build it up or exercise your trust muscles, you are already trusting something.

If you are simply accurate and constructive with your approach, you can understand that you are trusting in something. You always make a decision and if you trust in that decision and act as though that decision has registered, you get the effect of that decision. If you say you do not trust the decision, perhaps your circumstance shows otherwise, you are still trusting in something; generally, a disempowered idea. You always decide and you always trust.

Being willing to make your decision consciously and to trust your decision consciously is all that it takes to use the mechanism that you already employ in your life, but use it constructively. Use it to have a desired effect and to create the life that you prefer. Trusting your decision is truly and simply maintaining the decision.

3.      Vision

Your personal vision is a picture of your true self in the future. This, as is usual, includes all the important components of your life and career; who you want to be, what you want to do, how you want to feel, what you want to own, and with whom you want to associate. Basically, your personal vision is a snapshot of the things that excite you the most. Your vision guides your life and provides the direction necessary to chart the course of your days and the choices you make about your life. A vision is like a compass that guides and directs you towards your reality. Many people go through life without a definite vision and often wonder why their reality is not as they want it to be. When clarifying your vision, you begin to determine the reality that you prefer. 

Creating your own reality according to preference involves a slight shift in perception. You already create your own reality unconsciously and now all you need to do is take responsibility for creating your reality according to your preference. In the past, you have been creating your reality in auto-pilot mode, being unaware of your thoughts and feelings.

You must clearly define your intention or the vision which represents the purposes or general themes in your life. Through your alignment with that thing that gives you the ultimate excitement, your moment to moment reality begins to reflect this alignment. When you decide to establish your specific vision, each moment has something directly to do with that vision. What excites you in any given moment will now change, for those things that excite you will now be representative of the path of least resistance towards that most exciting thing. Use this as a compass for directing you to where these moments will ultimately lead.  

4.      Deservability

Clear deservability is another clarifying issue that allows you to see your connection to God or what you would desire within existence. Your deservability is your inherent given, you need not have done anything in particular in order to deserve to exist. You simply exist and along with it, you have both excitement and desires and you also deserve to fulfil these desires. So, if you find yourself bumping against a wall, look at the fact of do you truly feel that you deserve the things that excite you and if you do not, have a closer look at that issue. If you believe that you do not deserve, know that you can change that and you can begin to grant yourself deservability.

Realise that your primary relationship in life is with yourself. Your ability to do anything externally will only be a reflection of your willingness to do so internally. Your willingness to love yourself unconditionally will be reflected in your ability to love others unconditionally. Your ability to cease judging yourself will allow you to cease the judgement of others. Therefore, deservability can be a prime clarifying issue.

5.      Beliefs

Your beliefs are the foundations of your actions and your actions create your reality. If you believe in a negative outcome, you will perform actions that will attract you to a negative outcome. The only way to change your negative beliefs is by acknowledging them. By allowing an emotion to deliver a belief you can create the joyous appreciation of your reality. You must first acknowledge the old negative belief and then acknowledge the new positive belief. Then compare in your mind, how one who believes in a negative outcome acts and how one with a positive belief acts.

People always act according to what they believe. So, in stating the new preferred positive belief, and using your imagination to furnish how a person would act who believes that, you will see a different set of actions come forth in your imagination. They will then be available for you to choose as your action.  Should you choose the action reflective of a positive belief then you create a momentum of events leading to that positive outcome. You will create a vibration that attracts to you the positive outcomes, even under the same set of circumstances.

Understand the distinction between exploring something mentally and experiencing it. You can literally explore any idea but without action, the thought will not manifest into a reality. It is safe to look at any belief within you – even the ones that are disturbing – for if you are not acting according to those beliefs, the mere thinking of them has no effect. This gives you the license to freely view and review the things that you believe, understanding that they cannot destroy you. In fact, keeping them in place, through denial, rather than acknowledging and transforming them, gives them more power to seemingly have a negative outcome.

6.      Excitement

Creating your own reality according to preference involves a slight shift in perception. You already create your own reality unconsciously and now all you need to do is take responsibility for creating your reality according to your preference. In the past, you have been creating your reality in auto-pilot mode, being unaware of your thoughts and feelings. From this point forward, you must base the creation of your reality on the things that excite you the most. Remember, your excitement is who you choose to be in this life. 

This applies to the ultimate exciting thing that you feel you may ever do and it also applies to available things at any given moment using that vibration. That excitement is there to determine what is representative of you so that you can act upon that option with integrity. Acting with integrity means acting as though you are integrated with all things.

Align yourself with the ultimate exciting thing that directly affects what occurs in the moment. This allows what happens at any given moment to be a stepping stone towards your ultimate exciting thing. If you want to create your reality consciously according to what you prefer, you must acknowledge the thing that gives you the ultimate excitement. You must clearly define your intention or the vision which represents the purposes or general themes in your life. Through your alignment with that thing that gives you the ultimate excitement, your moment to moment reality begins to reflect this alignment.

In each and every given moment, there are a series of choices that are available and immediately accessible. Choosing from those choices, with the excitement as the criteria that you will not settle for a less, and then acting upon that action creates a new effect in your life. When acting from an excited perspective and with integrity, the result can only be an exciting result and not harming you or anyone else.

Deciding and allowing yourself to be excited and factoring in moment to moment excitement into your decision is the beginning of the journey towards being the one that you wish to be. When you notice which one excites you the most, within the different options that you are presented with, you can embellish the decision to include the idea of the thing that excites you.

7.      Action

The physicalised movement of your physicalised body is the thing that actually creates the reality. Your style and approach of your action results from your beliefs and the cause of causes are your belief systems. The actual mechanism that ringed in the reality and allows it to change and transform is the action. Your willingness, not only to define what it is that excites you, to act upon your excitement is the set of parameters that will allow you to create the reality you prefer most. Begin to pay attention to what excites you and as well as pay particular attention to what does not.

You can only experience a reality you are the vibration of. Many people are functioning as beings that manifests what they do not prefer. The way to transform for a being whose vibration is that of manifesting the reality that is not preferred, is by action. When you believe that you have always created a certain portion within your life of things which you do not prefer, and assume that you will continue to do so, you can then perpetuate the idea that you create your life that you prefer. Now, what will physically raise your vibration is physical action. The tone of that physical action is determined by your underlying beliefs.

Clear action is what you do, how you move and how you implement the ideas. 

It is the implementation of the ideas that bring them into your physical reality. You exist on a simultaneous and infinite number of levels and what you are choosing to explore now is the physical existence. It is the actions that you perform that is the ultimate physical manifestation of your emotions, beliefs and thoughts.